“We must never forget our heritage. It is who we are; it is our pride. Without history, we don’t have so much to look up to for the future, because we are all our history of where we are from,” says Hon. Princess Folashade Olabanji-Oba, one of the leading female voices for the girl-child empowerment and community development in Lagos, especially in Ikorodu. She noted that culture is imperative for development, adding that it is what defines us as a people.
“If you don’t celebrate your heritage, you truly have no identity. What is there about you to celebrate? For me, every day I wake up, I thank God for my heritage.
I am proud to say this is my history, so aligning myself with that history gives me greater hope for the future and to say: ‘My forebears did it to this level, I am also contributing this; my children and children’s children tomorrow, will also say, my grandma and my great-grandma did this.
So, life is like a baton you pass on, but you must put it in a positive way. And that is why I am very passionate about Ikorodu,” she said. According to her, as a person, you are a living testimony.
“Most times, people don’t have to follow you to your house. Your way of life, the standard that you set, speak a lot about you if you have that real family values and orientation. Some of my friends, they tease me, before they say anything they won’t even call my name, Princess, they will say ‘Ikorodu.’ I laugh, and say so Ikorodu is my name? Their responses are:
You, everything, Ikorodu, Ikorodu Oga, Ikorodu Unlimited. And when they say that, once I hear Ikorodu Unlimited, it puts a smile on my face, because it is saying, I am this, and I am not ashamed of where I come from. I love my people so much from the bottom of my heart.
And no one is an island; it is not something that only one person can do. It is something for which we all have to join hands and be true ambassadors of our home land.”
A real estate and brokerage expert, and founder of an NGO ‘Shelter of Grace Foundation’ (SGF), Olabanji-Oba, who is seeking election as chairman of Ikorodu Central Local Government Area on the platform of the All Progressives Congress (APC), also stressed the need for teaching of history in our schools.
“It is very important that we teach our children history. That is one thing I celebrate my grandma for, she had a lot of influence on me too. She taught me a lot. Now, my children, before I say two things, I tell them proverbs, I tell them about our culture.
And I am proud to say so many things to them because I took time to learn; and those things I learnt in my formative years have helped me a lot.
“The technology that we have today should be major enhancer, not things that can expose us to dangers that are out there. So, history is very important.
When we learn who we are, how we were, it helps realize where we are today. And it makes us plan even better in regard to how tomorrow can be greater. Also, the language is a must.
And, I know even my husband will say I am an Igbo woman in Yoruba body, because I was raised to see Nigeria as one. I speak the three major languages – Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa.
So, that Wazobia attitude needs to be imbibed also in our children,” she said. On her love and passion for community development, helping the less-privileged, promoting peaceful co-existence, industry among others, she said:
“I am a child that was raised with so much love, and so giving love is all I really know how to do. I thank God for the lives of my parents of blessed memory, they are both gone.
My mother was one very strong factor in my life. She taught me that ‘you’ve got to prioritize, give your best diligently, in any community you find yourself.’ And she will tell you, ‘a good name is priceless above rubies and diamonds. And living a life of integrity is sacrosanct.
There is no excuse. She wasn’t privileged to go to school so much, but she was somebody that believed so much in education, and also believed that whether you are a boy or a girl, it doesn’t matter.
I am her first daughter, and I know that my father at that time was like ‘he needed a boy’ and so on. I just thank God that before he died I proved him wrong, that boy-child, girl -child, it depends on what you put into that child.
Before my father died, he used to call me ‘Okurin mewa’ not even ‘Obirin’ (girl) anymore, because he saw the heart that I have and he was ever so proud of me.
“And now that they are gone, I know t h e i r spirit lives on; and I want them to be so proud of me, wherever they are, to say: ‘I have left a good child that will also bless their world tremendously.
And I think that is what life is all about. We are here for all of us; we should be our best brother’s, our best sister’s keeper; watch out for each other; and know that nobody is an island.
And whatever you do, give it your best; and also invest in yourself. The ‘you’ of today must be better than the ‘you’ of yesterday; so your ‘you’ of tomorrow must also be better than your ‘you’ of today.” She stated that she was born in Lagos Island, Isale Eko, and had beautiful experience.
“My orientation like I said, comes with a big smile every time I think about my parenting, the love and support from my parents. I went to school in Adeola Model School, Offa, Kwara State.
I went to Federal Government Girls College, Owerri in Imo State for my ‘O levels’. I had my ‘A levels’ at King Language School, and then the American College for my first degree. I took some courses in business and marketing at West London College, before going on to the United States of America.
And I was in insurance first, from insurance into real estate. And before I relocated to Nigeria in 2006, I was licensed as a mortgage broker and banker in California and Texas to do mortgage and real estate. Coming back to Nigeria, I set up a real estate firm, Pacific Capital. That is pretty much what I do. I have a foundation, called Shelter of Grace Foundation that takes care of women and youths.
I believe in training, empowerment; so far we have trained over 5500, in different vocations and skills. I am doing this not because I am rich but I believe that at whatever level the society has nurtured you, now it is about you giving back. “My going into politics also stems from that. I just believe that politics means relevance.
If I am able to help my people more to influence things, to create a better enabling ground for them, I think I can be a happier person.
So, for Ikorodu, the love of my mum, the love that my mum also had for this community, Ikorodu, who even before she died made me promise her to take care of her people, yes my people.”